Episode Overview
On this episode of the Sexology podcast we are having a conversation about how to please your partner/lover. Many of us didn’t have comprehensive sex education, which can leave us feeling like we don’t have the full scope of knowledge needed to please ourselves and our partners.
Dr. Lonnie Barbach will be joining me today to discuss these topics and provide insight on what you can do to improve your sex life with your partner. Maybe you grew up with sexual inhibitions based on the way you were raised, religion, etc. This can have an impact on how you show up sexually.
It’s important to realize that what worked for a previous partner, might not work now you’re your current partner. Really get to know your partnered and the level of arousal they need to be at. When looking at a relationship or sexual partners, if the chemistry is missing or the erotic templates don’t match, it can be hard to bring the magic in the relationship. It’s also important to note, there is more to sexual compatibility than chemistry.
There’s no amount of sex that is normal. Although, it’s important to have to two partners who generally desire the same amount/level of sex. During this conversation, we will continue exploring the topics as well as openness to new experiences, why physical relationships go down the tube, making components of your relationship a priority and continuing to court your partner.
Highlights
- Becoming a better lover in the bedroom
- Barriers that get in the way of meeting sexual needs
- Knowing what works for your lover now
- Signs that let a person know you are interested in sex
- Determining sexual compatibility
- Can intimacy be restored?
- Restoring relationships and creating safety
About Dr. Nazanin Moali
Dr. Nazanin Moali is a clinical psychologist, sex expert, sexologist and sex therapist in the Los Angeles area. Dr. Moali has helped couples and individuals overcome sexual concerns, including pornography addiction. Dr. Moali hosts confidential consultation sessions for clients and potential clients in her Torrance and Hermosa Beach offices. You can also book a session with her online, via a secure video-counseling platform.

About Dr. Lonnie Barbach
Dr. Lonnie Barbach is a clinical social psychologist. She was codirector of clinical training at the sex advisory. She is currently in private practice. She has received numerous awards and written various books. Dr. Lonnie Barbach also has various video and audio tapes. She is a cofounder of a happy couple relationship game app.
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