Episode Overview
There are so many different types of relationships and lifestyles beyond monogamy.
The swinger lifestyle is one of the most misunderstood types of relationships. Some of the misconceptions around swinging include being unhealthy, non-consensual, or that it’s a way for couples to “save their relationships.” The truth is, swinging is just a type of relationship and lifestyle on the spectrum of open relationships. Swinging entails a social-sexual interaction with folks, typically recreationally. Couples seek out other couples, singles seek out couples and everything in between.
In this episode, I talk with Chanta Blue all about the swinger lifestyle. She shares about her own experiences that introduced her to this topic, what she’s learned about the demographics of participants, and how partners navigate some of the complexities that come with this type of relationship. As we dive in, Chanta talks about the myths and misconceptions around swinging, and why society needs to create space for this lifestyle.
Take a listen to learn about the ins and outs of the swinger lifestyle and how couples navigate it.
Some Questions I Ask:
- What does “swinging” entail? ([3:30])
- How does the quality of the swinger sexual experience compare with consensual non-monogamous relationships? ([14:07])
- What are some common misconceptions around the swinger lifestyle? ([19:56])
- How diverse is the swinger community, globally and nationally? ([23:11])
In This Episode, You Will Learn:
- How Chanta Blue was introduced to the swinger lifestyle. ([5:54])
- How the swinger population spans various demographics. ([7:43])
- About the intersection between swinging and polyamory. ([11:45])
- How people can navigate feelings of jealous when they expect to feel compersion. ([16:05])
- Why society shames the swinger lifestyle. ([25:12])
About Dr. Nazanin Moali
Dr. Nazanin Moali is a clinical psychologist, sex expert, sexologist and sex therapist in the Los Angeles area. Dr. Moali has helped couples and individuals overcome sexual concerns, including pornography addiction. Dr. Moali hosts confidential consultation sessions for clients and potential clients in her Torrance and Hermosa Beach offices. You can also book a session with her online, via a secure video-counseling platform.
About Chanta Blue
Chanta Blue is a licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist. She is the co-owner of Blue Counseling & Wellness Center in New Jersey. She specializes in issues related to parent-child conflict, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, body image, and sexuality. Chanta is in love with love, and that everyone deserves love. Her mission is to empower and educate girls and women of color to live out their relationships, sexuality, and the overall lifestyle that they desire.
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