Part of being sex positive is acknowledging and mitigating the risks surrounding sex, including STIs (sexually transmitted infections). Culturally, the conversation about STIs is a minefield of stigma and shame. So, here are some tips on avoiding misconceptions about...

What comes to mind when you think of pleasure? We are living in a culture that values efficiency, career-mindedness, and constant ambition, so pleasure sometimes takes a backseat to what we’ve accomplished throughout the day. But, much like a neglected friendship, if...

There is a pernicious sexual stereotype about men that exists contrary to decades of research: that men are ready for and want sex at basically any time. Low desire is more commonly associated with women, but it can affect people of any gender. Find out why men...

The fact that men tend to be more visual creatures that are ready for sexual stimulation quicker than most women is well established. Women often need context, story, or even banter to be a part of the equation in order to find sexual content arousing. Frequently,...

The word “fetish” conjures very different feelings in different people. Some have historically categorized it as a clinical disorder; for others, engaging in your fetish is the perfect way to spend Tuesday night. Fetish has no doubt faced more than its fair share of...

People who grew up with religious families or who practice religion as adults sometimes have a complicated relationship with their sexuality. Many religions offer a specific script for what is okay versus what is wrong within sexuality. That script can leave a lot of...

Men who suffer from low libido often experience a ripple effect on their relationships. Not only does sex become more infrequent, but without communication, their partners can feel ostracized or undesirable. Part of the problem is how much our society prioritizes...

If you’ve ever felt too distracted to get in the mood for sex, you, like a lot of people, could benefit from trying sensate focus. Sensate focus is a technique for intimate touch that can help almost anyone have better sex. It can help you calm your mind, connect to...

Many people had a religious upbringing during childhood, and the effects of growing up with religion last long into adulthood. Whether or not you’re still religious, it’s essential to take note of how certain faiths treat sexuality to combat unconscious habits that...

When people think about sex technology, the first things that pop into their head are frequently sex toys. But development in the field of sex tech includes far more than vibrators and cock rings. Sex tech has given us vital sex aids like lubricants and condoms as...

Long before the idea of sex positivity was engineered, there was the concept that female sexuality needed to be controlled, subdued, and discouraged. The idea was that if girls were “acting out” sexually, something had gone wrong. These long standing sexist and...

Almost everyone would improve their seduction skills if given a chance, but learning how to seduce is a difficult task. In this case, it might be helpful to think back to school. How did you learn best? Were you a visual, kinesthetic, or auditory learner? Your...